4 Steps to Monthly Meal Planning

Meal planning, grocery shopping and cooking are my least favorite chores. I’d rather clean the bathrooms or scrub grout with a toothbrush. But we have to eat, ordering meal replacement drinks or hiring a full-time cook aren’t options for us, so back to meal planning.

When my kids were little we got paid twice a month so I learned to do our meal planning and grocery shopping for two weeks at a time. Now I do the planning for a month at a time because we get paid once a month.

1. Blank slate. I start planning with a blank calendar page, one I print from my computer, purchase or get free from a local business. I mark off the days I don’t have to cook because we have activities or it’s the night I work late. I also make note of special occasions or nights we need to have something quick and easy. 

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2. Plug in the meals. I keep track of our meal on a Trello board, a paper or computer list, or index cards also work for this. I find it easier to keep a list rather than try to remember the meals we like. I also try to incorporate a couple new recipes each month.

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3. Make a list, check it twice. On the calendar squares I write what ingredients I need for each meal. Then I transfer the ingredients to a master shopping list. Having the ingredients listed on the calendar make it easy to quickly pull out what I need. Because I do my big grocery shopping once a month I also use the calendar as a reference for the fresh items I need for upcoming meal. If you want to shop weekly, you can still plan the menu for the month, then create the grocery list each week.

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4. Shop the pantry first. After the master list is made, I check what I have on hand and cross those items off the list or reduce the number I need to buy. Then I add snacks, things we are running low on and non food items.

A few last tips…

  • Make notes on the menu, use less lemon juice, big hit, or Nope!
  • Keep the calendars for reference
  • Keep season meals seasonal, heavy soups and chilis for cooler weather, and lighter meals for warmer weather
  • Leave room for fun, breakfast for lunch, chili dogs, make your own pizza night

Happy meal planning!

The Lesson I Learned from Failing to Plan

Routines and forming good habits aren’t fun. Getting into the habit of prepping lunches  and dinners isn’t fun. But they can help to manage days when unexpected events happen or the normal schedule doesn’t happen.

I learned that lesson last week when my schedule unraveled. I try to prep my lunches for work and I have a pretty good idea what we’re having for dinner. Our meal plan isn’t going to get us on the cover of a healthy life style magazine but it’s home cooked and less expensive than eating out.

Last Thursday my husband had to go out-of-town for a couple of days, the high schooler was having a problem with his contact and needed to go to the eye doctor. We had to be at school and work before the eye doctor’s office opened and I could schedule an appointment.  I didn’t know what time I’d need to leave work to take him to the doctor’s office. Our normal routine was out the window.

Last week I didn’t prep my lunches. Strike one. Thursday, I wasn’t sure what our schedule was going to be so I decided to just “wing it”. I didn’t take ANY THING for lunch. NOTHING.  Not a cheese stick or hard-boiled egg.  Strike two. For lunch on the way to pick the teen up, I had a bucket of soda from the mini-mart and sandwich cookies. For dinner we had fast food. Strike three.

Friday I felt the effects of the junk food I ate.  I woke up with swollen hands and my back and knees hurt. Yes, I know better. My body can’t handle eating like my teen. My lack of preparation or not being intentional about meals lead me to make bad food choices.

You don’t plan to fail, you fail to plan.

That is exactly what happened. I failed to plan. Being intentional about meal prep has moved up on my priority list. The time it takes to prep lunches is minimal compaired to feeling bad when it could have been prevented.

What are your favorite grab and go lunches? Any tips to make lunch prep easier? Let me know in the comments!

 

 

The Book Shelf

I love reading! Well, now I do but that wasn’t always the case. Reading wasn’t something I enjoyed, my mom tried to find books that I might like, teachers tried, I just wasn’t interested. I read for school, to my kids but not for fun. I didn’t start reading for enjoyment until I was in my thirties when I was put on restricted activity for health reasons. I was given some books to read, one of them was A Walk to Remember by Nicolas Sparks. I was hooked!

Now, I read more than one book at a time and know when new books in a series will be released. Sometimes I pick my next read by how many pages it has, if I’m going to pay for it the longer the better. I perfer to read non-fiction in traditional book format but fiction I usually read on my e-reader becasue I don’t need a light to read in bed. And a 400 page book hurts when you nod off and drop it on yourself.

 

I’m currently reading these three books

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Some of the books on my to be read list are

What books are on your to be read list? Please share in the comments I love book recommendations.

 

My favorite things under $20

These are few products I’m lovin’ right now. It’s like Oprah’s favorite things list but cheaper.

Maybelline Super Stay Matte and the Super Stay 24 hour satin lipsticks. I don’t wear IMG_0099lipstick very often because it wears off and don’t like to  continually reapply. These stay on! The one time I wore it to work my co-workers thought I was wearing the more expensive direct sales brand. Nope! Under $10 at the drug store or discount department store. Initially it goes on a little sticky but that feeling goes away once it dries. The colors are more intense on your lips than they look in the tube and I’d recommend getting the remover because it stays on.

 

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O’Keeffe’s Working Hands Lotion. This lotion has been a life (and hand) saver this winter. I work in an office where paper cuts are an occupation hazard. The lotion keeps my hands from feeling dry, it’s doesn’t feel greasy or heavy. It’s around $6 at the discount store. The best part for me is that it’s fragrance free. I’ve sensitive to perfumes and scented lotions, this one hasn’t caused the reaction I have with other lotions.

 

 

IMG_0101Pilot Frixion Highlighters. I like these highlighters for my planner because the colors are subtle compared to traditional highlighters and they don’t bleed through thinner papers. They are erasable and it works but it does leave thinner pages a little wrinkled. The set of 5 were under $8 at the office supply store.

 

IMG_0102Simple Modern Cruiser Cup. The cruiser cup holds a 16.9 oz water bottle perfectly. The lid has a snap closure that seals well to prevent leaking. I like the of this thermal cup better than some other styles I’ve tried because it’s slimmer and lighter. I feel like I can better hold it in one hand. I ordered this one from Amazon for $18, it’s available in a varity of colors.

 

What are your favorite things? Leave me a comment with your favorite things list!

 

You Need to Hear This!

While reading another blogger’s bio, my first thought was “this lady is perfect, I can’t be a blogger”. I started reading some of it to my husband. He wisely told me to stop reading it. Did I stop? NO! Her toddler can play the violin. I can’t even compare (translation – I’m not good enough).

That little voice in my head found a sweet spot of self-doubt and fear. Crystal Paine from Money Saving Mom recently posted this quote on Instagram:

Of all the people on the planet, you talk to yourself more than anyone. Make sure you are saying the right things.

When I first read the quote I thought that is so true. But then I read the blogger bio and that quote came back and hit me right in the heart. Would I ever intentionally tell my kids they aren’t good enough because someone else does something better? No! But there I was telling myself I’m not good enough.

The only person comparing me to her was me. I was comparing my everyday to her highlights. Of course she’s not going to put in her bio that her floors are sticky and she has had laundry in the dryer for three days.

 

Kindness seems to be a current theme on social media. Be kind to those who have opinions and beliefs that differ from your own. Yes, we need to be kind to friends, family, co-workers, and the other people we interact with. We also need to be kind to ourselves. There is always self-talk going on in our heads. Those thoughts that just pop-up.

  • I can’t believe I said that
  • I’m such a clutz
  • My hair looks awful
  • This shirt makes me look fat
  • I’ll never be able to …
  • I’m so stupid

We wouldn’t intentionally say those things to people we care about but we say them to ourselves all the time. We need to be our own Aibileen Clark from the book The Help by Kathryn Stockett.

You is kind

You is smart

You is important

I would add one more to that list…

You is enough

The Craft Area Reclaimed

My February mini project was to organize my craft area (aka the dumpster). Items got dumped there while waiting for their final destination, either it’s home here or elsewhere. The inspiration for the project was born out of desperation. I wanted to make some greeting cards but first I had to clear a work space and dig out the supplies.

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When I finally starting working on the project it only took about 2 1/2 hours to get the majority of the project done. My goal was to get the items out of the craft area that don’t live there, make it simpler to get the supplies out and to put them away.

My first step was to make a plan. I decided to create two craft zones, one for sewing and one for paper crafts. I took every thing off the shelves and put groups of items together. Because I had the least volume of sewing supplies I put them on the smaller shelf. I moved the small shelf next to the sewing machine to create the sewing zone.

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I moved the two larger shelves together for the paper craft and scrapbooking zone. I sorted and purged the drawers in the craft cart because the supplies were a mess! I put the smaller craft items, colored pencils, adhesives and rubber stamps in the drawers. Each drawer now has a specific purpose. If I need a tape runner, it’s in the top drawer.

I still have a few small projects to finish. I want to label the craft cart drawers and the storage boxes, and purge the rubber stamps (again). The last small project is to get rid of the dried up markers. Time to get the creative juices flowing!

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5 Productivity Road Blocks

I struggle with getting things done. I make great to do lists and have big plans, but then I get side-tracked. I hurry to get the most important things done at the last minute. These are my (self-inflicted) productivity road blocks.

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1.  Not writing it down. When it isn’t on the to do list I forget about it and it doesn’t get done. That applies to household chores, scheduling appointments, projects and even mailing cards on time. If I don’t have a reminder, I will forget to mail birthday cards.

2.  I really don’t want to do it. The chores on my list I really don’t want to do, I avoid. Usually, I’ll do something unproductive while I’m avoiding the dreaded task. Ultimately, I just won’t get the chore done or I’ll move on and get anything else done.

3.  In a minute. I tell myself I’ll come back and finish it “in a minute”. In reality, the “minute” might be a minute, an hour, or a week later.  I’ll get back to it eventually. Getting Things Done author David Allen says if it takes less than 2 minutes, do it now. I waste more time going from unfinished project to unfinished project than it would have taken do just finish what I started.

4.  Social Media. Ouch! I don’t mean actually posting on social media or checking in once in a while, I’m talking about refreshing the screen every two minutes in case I missed something important. Then I realize I’ve waisted an hour or more just scrolling along.

5.  Game apps. That realization really hurt. This is my biggest productivity crusher. I will play games where I can pop bubbles or break blocks until I run out of lives or coins and then try just one more time. Hours will pass without me realizing it.

What are your productivity road blocks? What steps did you take to overcome them? Please share your ideas in the comments. I need the help!

 

February Mini Project

I’m still recovering from purging and organizing our storage room. Because it’s late in the month I’m doing a mini project for February. I’m tackling the crap craft corner. It has gotten a little out of control and has become a catch-all area for the other sorting projects. The craft tables are a great place to put things just until I decide where they belong and put them there.

I sorted and purged some of the craft items in earlier organizing projects but it needs to be done again. I need to be very honest with myself about what I can and will use. Then organize what’s left and label the containers so I can find the supplies I want to use.

I wanted to make some greeting cards this week. Before I could start that project I had to clear a work space on the table. Cleaning the workspace before I can even start crafting drains my desire to work on any projects. I also realized many of my markers are dried out, supplies that don’t work also take the joy out of being creative.

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My goal for this project is to be able to find the supplies I want to use and easily be able to put them away. I want the corner to be a happy crafting area again and not the crap corner. Please share your craft supply organizing ideas in the comments.

Wait! I Might Need That!

Yes, that’s was my excuse for keeping a lot of things I don’t use. Because someday I might need the little kids craft supplies. I don’t have little kids at home! My “little” is taller than me and will be driving (too) soon. Do I really need to keep the finger paints and sidewalk chalk? There are also things I keep out of guilt because I think I should keep them. Maybe because it was expensive or it was a gift that has out lived it usefulness. Those aren’t good reasons to store items that aren’t used or loved.

Clutter is no more than postponed decisions. – Barbara Hemphill

Our simplifying process started in September with the challenge to get rid of one item a day, I kept that going in October but concentrating on clothes and crafts. November I downsized our Christmas decorations as I got them ready to put out for the holidays. January’s project was our basement storage room. The second load of donations from January’s decluttering were dropped off this week. It felt really good to get the piles donations, trash and recycle out of the family room.

Five months into decluttering I thought I might be missing some things or regretting giving them away. The truth is, I’m not missing any thing. I haven’t wondered where I put an item or wished I hadn’t gotten rid of something. Maybe because we are taking baby steps to decluttering or because we have too much stuff. I’m also more thoughtful about what I buy because if I don’t need it, use it and love it, it will quickly become clutter. I love having empty spaces! Not to fill them up with more stuff but to be able to see, use and enjoy what we have.

Wrapping Up the January Project

Our January decluttering project has been the storage room. The has turned out to be a bigger project than I expected. It’s surprising how much stuff I can get in a box and still get the lid to close.

The shelves along the wall were the focus of the project. The goal was to get the boxes off the floor, put like items together and get rid of things we don’t use and love. We do love coffee, but there is a limit to how many coffee makers even we can use.

 

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I posted about earlier progress here. These are the piles from the second part of the project.

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It was a lot of work! I’m very proud of the progress we made and motivated to keep decluttering. Sorting the kids keepsakes and the photos will be on going projects along with the shelf of Legos. It’s great to start seeing empty space and not feeling so overwhelmed by all the clutter. I think we accomplished our goals of clearing the floor, putting like items together and rid of things we don’t use.

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The final touches will be to deliver the donations, get rid of the trash, the empties and not piling stuff up in there to deal with later.