The Lesson I Learned from Failing to Plan

Routines and forming good habits aren’t fun. Getting into the habit of prepping lunches  and dinners isn’t fun. But they can help to manage days when unexpected events happen or the normal schedule doesn’t happen.

I learned that lesson last week when my schedule unraveled. I try to prep my lunches for work and I have a pretty good idea what we’re having for dinner. Our meal plan isn’t going to get us on the cover of a healthy life style magazine but it’s home cooked and less expensive than eating out.

Last Thursday my husband had to go out-of-town for a couple of days, the high schooler was having a problem with his contact and needed to go to the eye doctor. We had to be at school and work before the eye doctor’s office opened and I could schedule an appointment.  I didn’t know what time I’d need to leave work to take him to the doctor’s office. Our normal routine was out the window.

Last week I didn’t prep my lunches. Strike one. Thursday, I wasn’t sure what our schedule was going to be so I decided to just “wing it”. I didn’t take ANY THING for lunch. NOTHING.  Not a cheese stick or hard-boiled egg.  Strike two. For lunch on the way to pick the teen up, I had a bucket of soda from the mini-mart and sandwich cookies. For dinner we had fast food. Strike three.

Friday I felt the effects of the junk food I ate.  I woke up with swollen hands and my back and knees hurt. Yes, I know better. My body can’t handle eating like my teen. My lack of preparation or not being intentional about meals lead me to make bad food choices.

You don’t plan to fail, you fail to plan.

That is exactly what happened. I failed to plan. Being intentional about meal prep has moved up on my priority list. The time it takes to prep lunches is minimal compaired to feeling bad when it could have been prevented.

What are your favorite grab and go lunches? Any tips to make lunch prep easier? Let me know in the comments!

 

 

The Book Shelf

I love reading! Well, now I do but that wasn’t always the case. Reading wasn’t something I enjoyed, my mom tried to find books that I might like, teachers tried, I just wasn’t interested. I read for school, to my kids but not for fun. I didn’t start reading for enjoyment until I was in my thirties when I was put on restricted activity for health reasons. I was given some books to read, one of them was A Walk to Remember by Nicolas Sparks. I was hooked!

Now, I read more than one book at a time and know when new books in a series will be released. Sometimes I pick my next read by how many pages it has, if I’m going to pay for it the longer the better. I perfer to read non-fiction in traditional book format but fiction I usually read on my e-reader becasue I don’t need a light to read in bed. And a 400 page book hurts when you nod off and drop it on yourself.

 

I’m currently reading these three books

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Some of the books on my to be read list are

What books are on your to be read list? Please share in the comments I love book recommendations.

 

My favorite things under $20

These are few products I’m lovin’ right now. It’s like Oprah’s favorite things list but cheaper.

Maybelline Super Stay Matte and the Super Stay 24 hour satin lipsticks. I don’t wear IMG_0099lipstick very often because it wears off and don’t like to  continually reapply. These stay on! The one time I wore it to work my co-workers thought I was wearing the more expensive direct sales brand. Nope! Under $10 at the drug store or discount department store. Initially it goes on a little sticky but that feeling goes away once it dries. The colors are more intense on your lips than they look in the tube and I’d recommend getting the remover because it stays on.

 

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O’Keeffe’s Working Hands Lotion. This lotion has been a life (and hand) saver this winter. I work in an office where paper cuts are an occupation hazard. The lotion keeps my hands from feeling dry, it’s doesn’t feel greasy or heavy. It’s around $6 at the discount store. The best part for me is that it’s fragrance free. I’ve sensitive to perfumes and scented lotions, this one hasn’t caused the reaction I have with other lotions.

 

 

IMG_0101Pilot Frixion Highlighters. I like these highlighters for my planner because the colors are subtle compared to traditional highlighters and they don’t bleed through thinner papers. They are erasable and it works but it does leave thinner pages a little wrinkled. The set of 5 were under $8 at the office supply store.

 

IMG_0102Simple Modern Cruiser Cup. The cruiser cup holds a 16.9 oz water bottle perfectly. The lid has a snap closure that seals well to prevent leaking. I like the of this thermal cup better than some other styles I’ve tried because it’s slimmer and lighter. I feel like I can better hold it in one hand. I ordered this one from Amazon for $18, it’s available in a varity of colors.

 

What are your favorite things? Leave me a comment with your favorite things list!

 

You Need to Hear This!

While reading another blogger’s bio, my first thought was “this lady is perfect, I can’t be a blogger”. I started reading some of it to my husband. He wisely told me to stop reading it. Did I stop? NO! Her toddler can play the violin. I can’t even compare (translation – I’m not good enough).

That little voice in my head found a sweet spot of self-doubt and fear. Crystal Paine from Money Saving Mom recently posted this quote on Instagram:

Of all the people on the planet, you talk to yourself more than anyone. Make sure you are saying the right things.

When I first read the quote I thought that is so true. But then I read the blogger bio and that quote came back and hit me right in the heart. Would I ever intentionally tell my kids they aren’t good enough because someone else does something better? No! But there I was telling myself I’m not good enough.

The only person comparing me to her was me. I was comparing my everyday to her highlights. Of course she’s not going to put in her bio that her floors are sticky and she has had laundry in the dryer for three days.

 

Kindness seems to be a current theme on social media. Be kind to those who have opinions and beliefs that differ from your own. Yes, we need to be kind to friends, family, co-workers, and the other people we interact with. We also need to be kind to ourselves. There is always self-talk going on in our heads. Those thoughts that just pop-up.

  • I can’t believe I said that
  • I’m such a clutz
  • My hair looks awful
  • This shirt makes me look fat
  • I’ll never be able to …
  • I’m so stupid

We wouldn’t intentionally say those things to people we care about but we say them to ourselves all the time. We need to be our own Aibileen Clark from the book The Help by Kathryn Stockett.

You is kind

You is smart

You is important

I would add one more to that list…

You is enough